How long should you wait before sleeping with someone?

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phaedellis Brisbane, Queensland Australia
Hi all have been seeing someone now for a HUGE total of 2 wks, do you think its too early to sleep with him, and if so why? i think once you hit a certain age, who really gives a damn, i mean we are not children and what have we got to loose..... ZILCH! boy i could use some good LURVING.... your comments would be appreciated ...especially yours Kiz!!!!!
Lou29 Floating in the Riverina, New South Wales Australia
I am sure she won't tell you no, hold off longer! lol



I say go for it as soon as you feel comfortable! Does he come across like he's getting the itch yet? It appears you are itching already so I say DO IT! lol


Ralf74 Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia
It is your body, if it feels right DO IT!!! Go for it girl! dancing banana
Twodawgz melbourne, Victoria Australia
Lou29: I am sure she won't tell you no, hold off longer! lol
I say go for it as soon as you feel comfortable! Does he come across like he's getting the itch yet? It appears you are itching already so I say DO IT! lol


Ewwwww not the itch..laugh
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Do it when it feels right to do it.wine

make sure you check the bulge in the Levis don't want you to be dissapointed.wine
Twodawgz melbourne, Victoria Australia
Just a thought the best way to protect your heart and emotions is to WAIT before you sleep with someone , because no matter how much guys want to deny it, they do have a double standard for women and if you give it up too quickly and too soon to a guy, they WON'T see you as relationship material.

JMO.
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Twodawgz: Just a thought the best way to protect your heart and emotions is to WAIT before you sleep with someone , because no matter how much guys want to deny it, they do have a double standard for women and if you give it up too quickly and too soon to a guy, they WON'T see you as relationship material.

JMO.
Oh I usually wait for the "hello nice to meet you' then throw them on the bed. Do you think I'm rushing?



giggle lips
Ralf74 Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia
Twodawgz: Just a thought the best way to protect your heart and emotions is to WAIT before you sleep with someone , because no matter how much guys want to deny it, they do have a double standard for women and if you give it up too quickly and too soon to a guy, they WON'T see you as relationship material.

JMO.


How long do you suggest? And does that mean if men are after more on the first date that you were never considered relationship material from the first encounter? I just left a 15 yr marriage that was a one night stand. Mind you, this started when I was just a teenager and things have changed alot since then! Just want a man's perspective on this (or anyone else who cares to reply).
Twodawgz melbourne, Victoria Australia
sxc666: Oh I usually wait for the "hello nice to meet you' then throw them on the bed. Do you think I'm rushing?


Hello nice to meet you too what the fark ya waiting for..devil
Twodawgz melbourne, Victoria Australia
Ralf74: How long do you suggest? And does that mean if men are after more on the first date that you were never considered relationship material from the first encounter? I just left a 15 yr marriage that was a one night stand. Mind you, this started when I was just a teenager and things have changed alot since then! Just want a man's perspective on this (or anyone else who cares to reply).




For me it's wise to wait at least a few months. You never know who the "real" person you are dating might be, which I don't believe you really know in the first couple of months, but it's still better than only waiting a week . But having sex has too many consequences to just be doing it a person that you don't really know yet. At least in my opinion..
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Twodawgz: Hello nice to meet you too what the fark ya waiting for..
I'm waiting for Harry batting eyelashes shamrock shimmy devil devil
Twodawgz melbourne, Victoria Australia
sxc666: I'm waiting for Harry


Crack the red and Ill crack harry..wink laugh
Ralf74 Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia
Twodawgz: For me it's wise to wait at least a few months. You never know who the "real" person you are dating might be, which I don't believe you really know in the first couple of months, but it's still better than only waiting a week . But having sex has too many consequences to just be doing it a person that you don't really know yet. At least in my opinion..


Looks like I am in a pickle then, I can't wait that long, the body aches! I have urges! What is a girl to do??? The vibrator just doesn't cut it for me, I need more!!!help I just had a first date with a guy I met off this site the other day and I was so close to going too far! HELP ME - I think I am an addict.frustrated



phaedellis Brisbane, Queensland Australia
ok he truly is an awesome guy, and like i said its not as if were kids, ha! even tho it feels like it sometimes, but its been awhile for me and i think im going to go for it! who cares about what the consequences are for crying out loud we need to have some sort of relief....lol and the good old vibrator is running out of batteries...lol
I know what Kiz will say " what the hell you waiting for woman"
I'll keep you all posted by the way girls he has the Best Bod!!!!! he's a firee, and yep felt the bulge and that was just after one kiss.....god hold me back!!!!!!!!!



phaedellis Brisbane, Queensland Australia
No babe your not an addict, that is bloody normal, as normal as it gets!
Twodawgz melbourne, Victoria Australia
phaedellis: ok he truly is an awesome guy, and like i said its not as if were kids, ha! even tho it feels like it sometimes, but its been awhile for me and i think im going to go for it! who cares about what the consequences are for crying out loud we need to have some sort of relief....lol and the good old vibrator is running out of batteries...lol
I know what Kiz will say " what the hell you waiting for woman"
I'll keep you all posted by the way girls he has the Best Bod!!!!! he's a firee, and yep felt the bulge and that was just after one kiss.....god hold me back!!!!!!!!!



Good luck Phae HAPPY HUMPIN..wink



phaedellis Brisbane, Queensland Australia
sxc666: Oh I usually wait for the "hello nice to meet you' then throw them on the bed. Do you think I'm rushing?
Your a woman after my own heart, you go girl! and you know what, you guys are right if it feels great then why not, i think my problem is, is he for real! he is such a gentleman, really down to earth oh and did i happen to mention he has a great Bod...hahaha



phaedellis Brisbane, Queensland Australia
Twodawgz: Good luck Phae HAPPY HUMPIN..
Thanks babe, love the Pic.........
kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
phaedellis: Hi all have been seeing someone now for a HUGE total of 2 wks, do you think its too early to sleep with him, and if so why? i think once you hit a certain age, who really gives a damn, i mean we are not children and what have we got to loose..... ZILCH! boy i could use some good LURVING.... your comments would be appreciated ...especially yours Kiz!!!!!



Havnt ya farked him yet Phae ???
Jesus woman he is a farkin fireman !!!
you know
"finds em hot n leaves em wet "

I want detailed details you know this sooooooo
be bad Phae
Kizzylips



phaedellis Brisbane, Queensland Australia
Hey Kiz, knew i could count on you girl, he has the kids till sat and then goes back to work on sunday, so i'm aheadin out to his place first thing Sunday night, hes on day shift 2 days then night 2 days, god thats a good life 4days on 4days off, where do we get a job like that????




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