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joshbris81 brisbane, Queensland Australia
[top] Tue Sep 9, 2008 2:55 AM CST : How to get over a broken heart?
Hi, i need some advice on how to mend a broken heart when its been broken by your dream girl. I have tried dating/relationship with a another woman, but my hearts not in it and can still only think of the ex.. Its been about 4 or 5 months and its driving me crazy.. Any suggestions?
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monty611 gladstone, Queensland Australia
[top] Tue Sep 9, 2008 3:17 AM CST : How to get over a broken heart?
joshbris81: Hi, i need some advice on how to mend a broken heart when its been broken by your dream girl. I have tried dating/relationship with a another woman, but my hearts not in it and can still only think of the ex.. Its been about 4 or 5 months and its driving me crazy.. Any suggestions?


I would say wait until u are ready to move on, moving on too soon takes all the baggage onto the next one is that fair for either of u dunno
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blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
[top] Tue Sep 9, 2008 3:20 AM CST : How to get over a broken heart?
joshbris81: Hi, i need some advice on how to mend a broken heart when its been broken by your dream girl. I have tried dating/relationship with a another woman, but my hearts not in it and can still only think of the ex.. Its been about 4 or 5 months and its driving me crazy.. Any suggestions?


um...

don't be in a hurry to move on (4-5 months isn't long if you loved someone)

think of the good times and what you shared and be thankful that you had her in your life for the time you did (some people are not meant to be in our lives for a long time.. just long enough to teach us something :-D )

spend time getting to know you and what you want

don't expect another person to make you happy.. happiness comes from within and being happy with who YOU are without someone else

there's probably more I could say but I wont laugh

jmo thumbs up
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joshbris81 brisbane, Queensland Australia
[top] Tue Sep 9, 2008 3:50 AM CST : How to get over a broken heart?
yes i reaslised it wasnt fair to either of us and now we are friends. That dam "it takes time" gah not the best feeling in the world until you finally are able to move on. Was hoping on a instant cure haha.
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kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
[top] Tue Sep 9, 2008 3:51 AM CST : How to get over a broken heart?
No way, Dont waste another second thinking about someone who has broken your heart
I have a motto " Suffering is Optional" Choose not to !!!
I mean really why do we beat ourselves up so much when someone ELSE has hurt US !!!! Its just a waste of time

, My advise

,Take all the good, the passion you shared, the way you felt when you knew that you were loved,the tenderness,the easy laughter take all the very essennce of the love you shared & take it with you ...forward

Leave the shock, hurt,betrayal,anger,hurt,abuse,,leave the big question "why" leave the pity"ive lost my dreamgirl" all the negatives behind..
Have you eva wondered why when we are happy in a loving relationship thats when people hit on you, or flirt with you?
Thats because your carriyng all this positive stuff & throwin out vibes that say'Look somebody really loves me & I am capable of loving another"

Try it tommorrow . walk down the street as if your in love , feel it ,be it , & watch what happens....Its farkin Magic

well now ive shared Kizzys secret ... enjoy & remember

' suffering is optional"

Kizzylips
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psuedonym adelaide, South Australia Australia
[top] Tue Sep 9, 2008 4:01 AM CST : How to get over a broken heart?
kizzy27: No way, Dont waste another second thinking about someone who has broken your heart
I have a motto " Suffering is Optional" Choose not to !!!
I mean really why do we beat ourselves up so much when someone ELSE has hurt US !!!! Its just a waste of time

, My advise

,Take all the good, the passion you shared, the way you felt when you knew that you were loved,the tenderness,the easy laughter take all the very essennce of the love you shared & take it with you ...forward

Leave the shock, hurt,betrayal,anger,hurt,abuse,,leave the big question "why" leave the pity"ive lost my dreamgirl" all the negatives behind..
Have you eva wondered why when we are happy in a loving relationship thats when people hit on you, or flirt with you?
Thats because your carriyng all this positive stuff & throwin out vibes that say'Look somebody really loves me & I am capable of loving another"

Try it tommorrow . walk down the street as if your in love , feel it ,be it , & watch what happens....Its farkin Magic

well now ive shared Kizzys secret ... enjoy & remember



i agree with that 100% , but after all that and you still feel like crap, go buy a Harley , a dirt bike and a sports ATV, (yamaha banshee for preference) pour all your love and devotion and hard earned cash into them, and enjoy. some call it midlife crisis, i call it therapy

' suffering is optional"

Kizzy
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kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
[top] Tue Sep 9, 2008 4:05 AM CST : How to get over a broken heart?
i agree with that 100% , but after all that and you still feel like crap, go buy a Harley , a dirt bike and a sports ATV, (yamaha banshee for preference) pour all your love and devotion and hard earned cash into them, and enjoy. some call it midlife crisis, i call it therapy

yep retail therapy helps ...hey use kizzys quickfix while shopping for a harley.....mmmm potential...
yay
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bourbon Sunshine Coast, Queensland Australia
[top] Tue Sep 9, 2008 7:37 AM CST : How to get over a broken heart?
joshbris81: yes i reaslised it wasnt fair to either of us and now we are friends. That dam "it takes time" gah not the best feeling in the world until you finally are able to move on. Was hoping on a instant cure haha.


Bundy fixes anything. wink




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Butterflyboo1974 Mid North COast, New South Wales Australia
[top] Tue Sep 9, 2008 7:44 AM CST : How to get over a broken heart?
It has taken two years for me feel like it may be time to .... move on....


I guess it is always hard when you loved so deeply...
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sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
[top] Tue Sep 9, 2008 3:58 PM CST : How to get over a broken heart?
Take your time to get in touch with your feelings and allow time to get over your ex there is nothing wrong with taking a bit of time to reflect before moving on.

I dont think going out an buying something materialistic will change the way you feel deep down.

Just give it time.wine
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Ecoprincess Sligo/New Zeland/ Australia, Sligo Ireland
[top] Tue Sep 9, 2008 4:31 PM CST : How to get over a broken heart?
kizzy27: i agree with that 100% , but after all that and you still feel like crap, go buy a Harley , a dirt bike and a sports ATV, (yamaha banshee for preference) pour all your love and devotion and hard earned cash into them, and enjoy. some call it midlife crisis, i call it therapy

yep retail therapy helps ...hey use kizzys quickfix while shopping for a harley.....mmmm potential...



Harleys are great boyfriends/girlfriends

you forget everything when your near them
love the attention you give them
they smell fantastic
they look like heaven
your the envy of everyone
and you get a ride whenever you want one


grin

gets me over most men, and if that fails a few whiskeys -the golden forget them nectar grin 'n then blow the cobwebs out your head on the harley

hug
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Twodawgz melbourne, Victoria Australia
[top] Tue Sep 9, 2008 8:22 PM CST : How to get over a broken heart?
Time heals all wounds.
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psuedonym adelaide, South Australia Australia
[top] Tue Sep 9, 2008 10:50 PM CST : How to get over a broken heart?

I dont think going out an buying something materialistic will change the way you feel deep down.

Just give it time.

the experience of cracking open the throttle on a harley on the open road, or jumping a 60' table top on a dirt bike or ATV will consume you beyond any level of euphoria a human can provide. or you'll die trying. either way problem solvered.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing laugh
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redozichick Brisbane, Queensland Australia
[top] Wed Sep 10, 2008 5:50 AM CST : How to get over a broken heart?
I agree.... time is all you need
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Ecoprincess Sligo/New Zeland/ Australia, Sligo Ireland
[top] Wed Sep 10, 2008 8:18 AM CST : How to get over a broken heart?
psuedonym: I dont think going out an buying something materialistic will change the way you feel deep down.

Just give it time.


the experience of cracking open the throttle on a harley on the open road, or jumping a 60' table top on a dirt bike or ATV will consume you beyond any level of euphoria a human can provide. or you'll die trying. either way problem solvered.


thumbs up

Harleys are not materialistic they are spiritual happy placehappy place
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kidatheart Southern BC/Lamont, Alberta Canada
[top] Wed Sep 10, 2008 10:27 AM CST : How to get over a broken heart?
I've heard the best way to get over someone, is to get under somone new. dancing banana

laugh wave
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Ecoprincess Sligo/New Zeland/ Australia, Sligo Ireland
[top] Wed Sep 10, 2008 2:33 PM CST : How to get over a broken heart?
kidatheart: I've heard the best way to get over someone, is to get under somone new.


Your turn on top now - don't be lazy

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing wave kiss
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sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
[top] Wed Sep 10, 2008 3:51 PM CST : How to get over a broken heart?
psuedonym: I dont think going out an buying something materialistic will change the way you feel deep down.

Just give it time.


the experience of cracking open the throttle on a harley on the open road, or jumping a 60' table top on a dirt bike or ATV will consume you beyond any level of euphoria a human can provide. or you'll die trying. either way problem solvered.Each to their own. If its a 10 min fix you are after then go for it.rolling eyes
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sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
[top] Wed Sep 10, 2008 3:52 PM CST : How to get over a broken heart?
kidatheart: I've heard the best way to get over someone, is to get under somone new.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing giggle peace
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Pockets66 Kelmscott, Western Australia Australia
[top] Sat Sep 20, 2008 12:49 PM CST : How to get over a broken heart?
psuedonym: I dont think going out an buying something materialistic will change the way you feel deep down.

Just give it time.



Buying will only help if it's a chainsaw (for non-timber application thereof) Just kidding ...........or maybe wishing.........
Take your time there is no point rushing from one bad relationship into another. Choices made in times like this are usually not good.
It's been 5 years since my ex shot through. While it may be that it didn't take me that long to get over it it took me a while to get my life together enough to start looking again. In the meantime I got my life back on track, going to Uni and raising my two beautiful daughters.
I think it's almost a bit like getting a loan. Before you can get it you first have to prove you don't need it.
Love is always there but companionship should be desired not required.
$0.02
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