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We only have to speak and we are nagging

You got it in one Red..

knew it

oh great advice there red who's side are you on anyway?

umm.....I'm outta here

Oh Red I am sure you never nagged anyone in your entire life

never!!!!

Very philosphical and intellectual BOC, ? you been smoking the funny weed again?



nagging is saying something the bloke does not want to hear

It is not considered "nagging" if the question is followed up by these words..................................










If you do you can do "anything you want to me later"

well most guys hear you the first time and we are either going to to it later when we can be bothered or are hoping that if we ignore you for long enough you'll give up on the idea. mostly when you persist on the same thing for long enough it makes us uncomfortable ....like its your mum asking and all us guys feel guilty about that " mother complex" ....she nursed us cared for us etc so all that guilt is transferred onto you and your request...its about here where EGO steps up and says his piece ....and your request having unearthed all these uncomfortable mother related issues is bruising the fragile ego and his sense of power and control so we coined the term nagging as a way to diffuse you and belittle your request reasonable or not into a neat little bundle called nagging...it makes it easier for us to pretend that we are in control so stroking our ego's and strutting around like the rooster in the hen house.
after all it does seem that its all part of a big game of point scoring and oneupmanship between the sexes. its amazing that the human race has made it this far.....its just unfortunate that the rules we tend to play by are all inclusive and tend to favour hurt feelings and broken hearts.......or maybe I'd just rather not mow the lawn today...lol

unfortunately I wasn't smoking it when I wrote that


actually.. I pinched the idea for the thread from the international forums.. thought it would be nice to see if aussie blokes differ from the rest of the world in their responses ..

so far its not looking good!

I like how you think

um.. now THAT is a very interesting theory .. kinda has an ring of truth to it that does .. well it sounds plausible to me anyway

and just mow the damn lawn

Doesnt matter how much you listen or talk to a women they will continue to nag, that is their fundamental trait.

Born to nag

cheeky monkey !

nah uh.. no way

how many times do I have to say this??



.. so you will do it?? .. knew if I went on and on and on long enough I would get my own sweet way

cannot mow the lawn ...to wet and the sheep might get offended

mow the sheep too.. it'll save ya having to shear them later

nagging = asking repeatedly for something to be done, that we know full well you are capable of doing yourself , or no-one other than the nagger gives a shit about