What men find attractive in a woman....

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blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
Hi everyone, came across this on another website. Interesting to see what u think

It is important to understand though that men can look at women from two different points of views. The 1st being a woman to have a temporary love making relationship with & the 2nd to have a woman as a life partner. Depending on these two points of views, men can look for & get attracted by different aspects in a woman. It is easy to understand that when it comes to a temporary love making relationship, men look for a good physical structure, especially nice breasts etc. But when it comes to pursuing a serious relationship, men look for an entirely different set of traits. These 10 traits contribute to HIM falling in love with HER

Smile- This is one of the most important traits that most men look for & get attracted to in a woman. The right smile releases all those love hormones in a man & his mind pretty much gets set on that. Most men only visualize a woman's smile when they think about them. The smile of a woman is like a magnet can draw the man's attention & keep it there.

Delicate Nature- Men like feminine women. Being feminine is about being delicate, soft, kind hearted & caring. Men are attracted towards feminine girls as they are looking for someone who can care for them. Men do seem hard from outside, but from inside they are like small children & need caring. They love to be cared about. Feminine doesn’t mean weak or overly shy. Men like women who are feminine, confident and carry themselves with grace.

The Voice- Men get attracted & often turned on with the right voice which strikes a cord in them. A highly feminine & soft voice is what most men find attractive. Voice plays a major role as communication is the most important aspect of any relationship. And a good voice is required for romantic communication. Women who speak too low barely making themselves audible are certainly a turn-off to most men

Humor- Sense of humor is something that most men look for in a woman. Men generally get attracted to women with a good sense of humor. Men want a woman who can understand and laugh with them. Sense of human is not only the ability to crack jokes but the ability to understand & laugh at one.

Materialism- Men get attracted to women who are unmaterialistic & DTE. Women who are too demanding & high maintenance are a major turnoff to men. Too much make up, jewelry etc are a turn-off to normal men.

Personality- A strong personality is another trait men find attractive in women. This does not mean a woman who is overly stubborn but someone who is not weak minded & can make her own sound decisions.

Eyes- Next to the smile, this is another facial feature that men get attracted to. Some men simply fall in love with the woman's eyes. The eyes can speak a thousand words & this is very much true with it comes to attracting the opposite sex.

Hair- Most men get attracted by long hair as that looks more feminine. The hair color is also important but different men have different tastes.

The Body- Physical appearance of a woman is an attractive feature but it is nothing compared to the above factors. As far as physical features are concerned, men get attracted to a woman's skin tone, lips, height & body weight. Men certainly prefer women who are shorter than them & those having a body mass equal or lower to them. Contrary to popular beliefs men are not bothered much about the size of the breasts when it comes to looking for a life mate. These factors are pretty much not important.

Confidence- Lastly, men get attracted towards women who make them feel comfortable & confident. Woman who laugh at their jokes, who support them in & outside & the one with whom he feels relaxed & open.

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beh1972 Canberra ACT, New South Wales Australia
An interesting post, while there are some valid points in it, it still looks to me as if it was written by the views of one person.

It all comes to the holistic package of the other person. Like for most things, there is a balance, as in it is possible to get over the top.

But for the record,

Smile- linked to personality, and humour.
Delicate nature - at what point is it too delicate? it can be 'over done'. Quite frankly do I like a woman who can open her own jars, especially when the seal is already gone!
Humor- Important, but it has to match each others expectations of 'humour'.
Materialism - This was the comment I agreed with most of all.
Personality- well duh.
Eyes - I have to say never considered it until I briefly dated someone who never looked into mine when talking. Very off putting
Hair - not a consideration. (unless there are nits) Although v.long hair = v.long time to get ready.
Body- beauty might get someone though the door, but their traits are what matters long term. For every single drop dead gorgeous woman out there, there are lots of blokes who couldn't put up with her cr@p.


blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
beh1972: An interesting post, while there are some valid points in it, it still looks to me as if it was written by the views of one person.

It all comes to the holistic package of the other person. Like for most things, there is a balance, as in it is possible to get over the top.

But for the record,

Smile- linked to personality, and humour.
Delicate nature - at what point is it too delicate? it can be 'over done'. Quite frankly do I like a woman who can open her own jars, especially when the seal is already gone!
Humor- Important, but it has to match each others expectations of 'humour'.
Materialism - This was the comment I agreed with most of all.
Personality- well duh.
Eyes - I have to say never considered it until I briefly dated someone who never looked into mine when talking. Very off putting
Hair - not a consideration. (unless there are nits) Although v.long hair = v.long time to get ready.
Body- beauty might get someone though the door, but their traits are what matters long term. For every single drop dead gorgeous woman out there, there are lots of blokes who couldn't put up with her cr@p.


well yeah.. but in saying that.. I as a woman could reverse it and want the same things.. however.. as to your point about written by one person.. er.. yeah I would say it was.. but.. aren't all writings like that? unless it specifically states it is a collaborative effort.... and also note.. I had to reduce it to 4000 characters cos thats all you can post.. grrr.. anyway.. didn't take anything away to change the gist of it .. but it did say it was based on surveys and research etc.. so I'm assuming that means they did a poll on this particular site and that is what the MAJORITY of men said .. and for the records.. I didn't write it laugh



beh1972 Canberra ACT, New South Wales Australia



beh1972 Canberra ACT, New South Wales Australia
i'm re-reading it, and will resubmit. drinking laugh
blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
beh1972: i'm re-reading it, and will resubmit.


rolling on the floor laughing smart man !! drinking
jimbhoy Hamilton, Strathclyde, Scotland UK
Not even a mention of BIG TITS in it so it's wrongwink rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
jimbhoy: Not even a mention of BIG TITS in it so it's wrong


well according to that.. the size don't matter .. but reversing it here.. size does matter !! rolling on the floor laughing
jimbhoy Hamilton, Strathclyde, Scotland UK
blondeaozichick: well according to that.. the size don't matter .. but reversing it here.. size does matter !!

Well it does and it doesn't....... depending on who's tits your groping at the timewink rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing dancing banana
relaxin somewhere, Queensland Australia
each man would have a different defination of what all of those things are to. here's to you
blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
relaxin: each man would have a different defination of what all of those things are to.


thumbs up exactly!

hey... so why am I still single after 8 yrs!! mumbling
kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
Mmmmm interesting ...
Unless he is submissive , Ill have to do my own survey on dom/sub prefered traits n post it ...
Leave it with me .
Kizzylips
jimbhoy Hamilton, Strathclyde, Scotland UK
blondeaozichick: exactly!

hey... so why am I still single after 8 yrs!!


You haven't met the right guy with the right hands that fit your boobs yet hun.... SO GET OUT THERE AND SEARCH FOR THEM HANDS HUNwink sticking out tongue rolling on the floor laughing
relaxin somewhere, Queensland Australia
blondeaozichick: exactly!

hey... so why am I still single after 8 yrs!!


by choice

or self preservation

blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
jimbhoy: You haven't met the right guy with the right hands that fit your boobs yet hun.... SO GET OUT THERE AND SEARCH FOR THEM HANDS HUN


rolling on the floor laughing oh ok.. calling all men..

please add your name and number to the list so I can start testing the size of your hands to see if they compatible devil
Twodawgz melbourne, Victoria Australia
blondeaozichick: oh ok.. calling all men..

please add your name and number to the list so I can start testing the size of your hands to see if they compatible


1300humpthedawgrolling on the floor laughing
blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
relaxin: by choice

or self preservation


hmmm right on both counts re thumbs up
blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
Twodawgz: 1300humpthedawg


hey that number you gave me was the 'rejection line' crying moping
blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
Ok.. was talking to a guy I work with today.. he is 34 and likes 18yr olds rolling eyes

anyway.. he said.. "I like women who are high maintenance" .. I said "WHY??" he said.. "I dunno..I just do" .. not much of an explanation but ... shows there are exceptions to the 10 rules rolling on the floor laughing




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