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hi think you might see this topic covered in the thread 'why do guys want sex on the first date' ... so have a read of that and see what you think :-)

Thats the difference between, man & boy !

man or boy.. they still think with the harry humper (ask twodawgz.. he knows all about Harry the Humper )

Why not his big enough to think for two.. 8========================D

.. where do you live again?

ummm no... some men might think that.. not all everyone is different, but that also depends on how you have come across, eg were you flirty perhaps making him think he was in

Well they can only sleep with you if you sleep with them I have found more men are not like that, then what I have found are.

Indeed, boys generally think with their lower regions and generally want to sleep with the first person they see where as men on the other hand will take the time to get aquainted with the person of interest. I for one would not under any circumstances go to bed with anyone on the first date as i am a firm beleiver in not knowing what a person is like by a first meeting, a relationship of any sort takes time to grow and mature, if is to be rushed into then their is all the chance that you will end up with the results you don't want.

My 2 cence

My POV
A one night stand is masturbating with someone else!!
No time
No knowledge
No connection
No emotion
No point!!
2.5 cents (rounded down)

I couldnt agree with you more. Never done a one night stand, their is no point.

Not all men expect to sleep with a woman on the first date.

All men probabley want to ( we are men after all) and that is the difference between men and boys.

i've had first dates with 3 ladies over the last fortnight. 2 were from sites like this one and one was met via normal daily life activity. 1 of those dates proposed sex to me. i declined.
again it seems that women are quite able to do whatever men get criticized for.

1 of those dates proposed sex to me. i declined.



hairy?Smelly?Badbreath?Ugly?slutty?creepy?
or did you just have a headache?

Bad Kizzy

Actually I have to admit, I have never thought that I'd be having sex with anyone on a first date. It's not something anyone should "expect". It does occasionally happen though.

Doesn't it depend on the person and the purpose of the 'date'??

I mean if you have never met them or talked to them or know anything about them (ie as in blind date etc) then of course your not going to meet 'expecting' a root .. you have to see if you connect or if there is an attraction there first

If you have seen what they look like and have talked to them via email or phone or whatever and there is a definite sexual attraction and the meeting is for the purpose of meeting to f@ck each others brains out then wouldn't it be a bit silly if you didnt have sex??

creepy i think
i went off her at about the half way point of the date when she told me she hit her kid when punishing him. i then spent the remainder of the time looking for an exit clause and i think she picked up on that and perhaps thought the "sex subject" might bring me back on track. wrong,

i think it really depends on where and how you met them.

In that context I suppose it would be different, but I've never had a date from the net. It's always been someone I met briefly somewhere, introduced by friends or even one blind date, it's been years since the last one.

Sooo, now that we've met......

Please don't generalise

you have a way of dealing with things that i can totally relate to.

i say we wouldn't just jump at the offer of sex for the having self respect.. i mean im not bagging out anyone else and their views, but i would do the same thing if were in your shoes. thumbs up!

see good guys exist.. psuedonym and deebrown lol

see good guys exist.. psuedonym and deebrown lol



Ill second that!