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As a comment. Maybe if you put a photo online then the guys that contact you would be genuine. Please dont take that as malice. From what i have been led to believe the guys just look at the girls looks and not the profiles. That and there are heaps of guys for you ladies to choose from.

Look put your picture out there , Physical attraction is important but in saying that what appeals to one doesnt nessasarily appeal to another.If you put your photo up then at least you know the man contacting you finds you appealing , that outta the way he can then start to get to know you & you he , Dont be worried , be confident in yourself as a sexy vibrant woman after all thats what you are .
JMO
Kizzy

Yep there are some rude buggers out there hrt, but have faith there are also some decent ones. The ones who dont bother do not desere you.

what they said, don't get upset.

Mind you I think because your pregnant it might be an idea to just focus on your baby .Its a long road being a parent but a very rewarding one even as a single mum .
Take the time to heal , learn from past experiances so your next relationship will endure.
I think & this is in no way a Judgement just my personal opinion, that trying to meet a man while carrying another mans child will be difficult.
As for being rescued , the only person that can save you is you.
Embrace your situation every child is a gift .
Kizzy

Geez, you talk some shit.

I mean seriously, what guy is going to think that he deserves an ugly, pregnant chick?

Compassion is one thing, bullshit is quite another.

I bow to your superior intellect Bourbon, I had not read the bit about pregnant, and I guess there are a lot of people who would be put off by that, but equally there are people who would not. Who is UGLY?? I saw no indication that the young lady is ugly at all.
Play nice and dont be so ready to throw stones, they may rebound.

No indication?... You can't be serious.



Let me translate this for you;

She sends a guy a pic and then she never hears from him again. She said "the guys" so we can say that this happens repeatedly.

Would you draw the conclusion that maybe she is somewhat less than attractive?

Or am I the only one to draw this conclusion.

My ex thinks Julia Roberts is ugly! Surely proof that beauty is in the eye of the beholder?

Beauty is definately in the eye of the beholder. If you put your photo on your profile, no one who doesn't like it is going to contact you and you wont feel the rejection that causes. On the other hand, there will be guys that are attracted to you that wont have bothered to contact you because a lack of photo puts a lot of people off.

You didn't really answer the question which was;

"Would you draw the conclusion that maybe she is somewhat less than attractive?"



In this particular case, I would think that beauty is in the eyes of the beerholder.

AS far as I would be prepared to go is to agree that indications are that this lady has shown pics to some who dont find her attractive. That is still a long way from ugly.[

Big time with you on this. You can not draw any conclusion about the attractiveness of someone based on the evidence given. Maybe the guys she showed the photo to have a phobia about red hair and hers is flaming. There is no way of knowing without interviewing the men in question. And besides all that, what is ugly anyway? I can always find something attractive about a person. Its really easy actually. The only "ugly" people are those with nasty personalities.

hiya,

dont take it to heart.............
i think i would find it very hard to date a guy (if it was possible) who was pregant.
dont put so much of you out there and it will workout, if a guy is to fullon it scares the b-gees out of me.

i would have thought the towers guys would have prepared you for the big bad world of internet, there are heaps of jarheads here.

Hi from another towersite

Yep! What she said!

I actually emailed her and suggested she may like to join us for coffee Relaxin, no reply yet lol

haha thats ok ...... the main house maid is off sick so have to go in early and possible run late so by the time 2 pm comes around........ i will need a cuppa

where do you want to go to ........... will be needing food to



oh oh oh nearly forgot kizzy has hugs here for you isnt that right Kizzy?

will ring tomorrow Rel, will have emmy with me too, we are a team lol, at 4 she has to stay with granddad