is it just me or dont people look at their mailboxes.

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rightin2 hastings, Hawkes Bay New Zealand
[top] Tue Aug 19, 2008 3:19 AM CST : is it just me or dont people look at their mailboxes.
im new n tryin 2 figure out y people not getting back wen i giv them a message.
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blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
[top] Tue Aug 19, 2008 3:46 AM CST : is it just me or dont people look at their mailboxes.
rightin2: im new n tryin 2 figure out y people not getting back wen i giv them a message.


ok.. there could be any number of reasons.. such as..

they get unindated with that many emails they can't possibly reply to them all

your messaage just doesn't grab their attention .. eg just the 'same old' 'same old' messages they see all the time

they check out your profile and see that you are not looking for the same thing they are eg you want a long term relationship.. they want just friendship etc

you say something totally stupid (not that I am implying you do of course!
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and numerous other reasons which I am sure the good people who frequent these forums will suggest to you grin

good luck anyway cheers
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kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
[top] Tue Aug 19, 2008 3:59 AM CST : is it just me or dont people look at their mailboxes.
rightin2: im new n tryin 2 figure out y people not getting back wen i giv them a message.



Some are just rude ....
Look at it this way if they dont respond ,there not the one for you.

Whats worse when you respond to an email then nothing...
Imean wtf?
If your gonna email me & ya get a positive reply from me then farkin answer!~!!!!!! It might just be your lucky day ....rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Oh hang on worse than that ...you email, they reply there not interested then 2 weeks later when their other options have fizzled out they all of a sudden want your attention....Yeahhhh Right !

Hey n welcome to the forums

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relaxin somewhere, Queensland Australia
[top] Tue Aug 19, 2008 8:36 AM CST : is it just me or dont people look at their mailboxes.
i have a standard reply to most emails (besides reg's on forums).... thanks but no thanks

i dont get the no reply idea. if they are rude to me well then i delete... it just doesnt do the same thing as slamming down a phone..... ever tried to end a call on a mob and slam it down rolling eyes just not as satisfying rolling on the floor laughing
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naicigam Perth, Western Australia Australia
[top] Sun Oct 12, 2008 1:02 AM CST : is it just me or dont people look at their mailboxes.
I'm with you Kizzy! if they don't respond... don't lose any sleep over it! They are obviously not for you so they are doing you a favour by not replying! You can also tell by looking in your 'outbox' if they have indeed viewed your mail.
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psuedonym adelaide, South Australia Australia
[top] Sun Oct 12, 2008 2:06 AM CST : is it just me or dont people look at their mailboxes.
well i reckon it's better to get no reply than to get a reply that tells you to f#@K off.
it seems that there are a lot of members on dating sites that get an ego boost from listing a profile, getting mail and then attacking the sender as if they had no right to email them. seriously, why put up such a profile if you dont want contact. and before i get drilled with all the "maybe you don't meet the criteria" comments, i spend a lot of time ensuring i'm at least considerably compatible, with the details on the profile

having said that, if you get sick of it , go try oasis active and just visit here for the stimulating forum conversations.

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readytolook42 Brisbane, Queensland Australia
[top] Sun Oct 12, 2008 2:40 AM CST : is it just me or dont people look at their mailboxes.
rightin2: im new n tryin 2 figure out y people not getting back wen i giv them a message.


Hi rightin2, I would say your profile has a lot to do with people not replying to you. Maybe you shouldnt make it sound so much like you are against the world.. Add a bit of love in there somewhere...give someone a reason to be interested in you.
Hope this helps.dunno
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psuedonym adelaide, South Australia Australia
[top] Sun Oct 12, 2008 2:49 AM CST : is it just me or dont people look at their mailboxes.
readytolook42: Hi rightin2, I would say your profile has a lot to do with people not replying to you. Maybe you shouldnt make it sound so much like you are against the world.. Add a bit of love in there somewhere...give someone a reason to be interested in you.
Hope this helps.



yeah i was gunna look at the profile, and magician's too i mean naicigam's but i was afraid people might talk questionably about my sexuality, not that there's anything wrong with that.

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yer right though, either put some positive energy into yourself description or remain fairly neutral, but never never show negativity
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