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Correct me if im wrong, this doesn't seem to be about being stood up. This is about a man who's shit himself when it was crunch time and maybe he realized his not ready to take the next step of any kind.

Personally, I think you'd probably be better off moving on and waiting for someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.



I've only been stood up once on cs, and this chick had been bugging me for a few weeks to go out for a coffee . When I finally gave in, she didn't show and i sat there like a 8=============D.
She did call 2 hours later to apologize and to give me her lame excuse. She also tried to reschedule our date. So I accepted the apology, rescheduled the date, and stood her up, cruel but the bitch brought it upon herself..

Hi Kizzy, I havnt been on CS very long but i have read some of your comments and you sound like you would be a lot of fun to spend time with. I say its his loss, forget about him, he is not worth it. There are many people both guys and girls who for whatever reason change their minds but dont have the guts to just come out and tell you even by sending a simple message, they simply just fade away BUT there are also many nice people too. Your turn to meet the right guy will come, dont lose faith.
As for doubting your judgement in peoples character.... bit hard to get it right when you have not actually met them.

Yeah well It feels like shit , I mean we were just going to meet!!!
Surley im not that scary farkkkkk
Ok maybe a littlee lol but I mean to be keen as mustard to meet last night then make plans in detail & then bail i mean fark i just dont get it ???
If he simply was shitting himself he only needed to say hey"Kizzy"lets just take things slowwwwwww.....
I may come across as a bit of a man eater on here but hey im not a rapist !!!
He isnt from cs anyway so its not like he was thinkin he was gonna be whipped n cuffed for desert !!!
Ofcourse there could be a plausible excuse ....he lost his phone,the computer blew up,was hit by a bus crossing the road,he had an allergic reaction to peanuts and is as we speak swollen to triple his natural size,hooked up to machines pumping Zertec into his bloodstream but .....I doubt it !!!!

Thx Dawgz your dead right ,but still dissapointed...
as to your coffee date ...paybacks are a bitch !!!
Least you got the opertunity to do one ..
Kizzy

Thx Aquarius , ill spot ya a drink at Kizzys some time ..
I felt after chatting extensivley I knew the type of man i was involved with ,,,,obviousley i was mistaken , but when there is a meeting of minds & a connection on an intellectual level as well as attraction, veiws on the important issues well I get excited ...Thatll teach me !!!

Kizzy

--- hopefully not ,but he may have had an accident --- or be dead --- nevertheless did you at least go out

Well Ill tellya what Cusp ...If he is dead or had an accident i am prepared to forgive n forget....

Seriously I hope all is ok , I think he has just been juggleing & im the thrird ball thats been dropped ..ah well & yes I think I will go out tonight anyway ..I gotta new dress & am waxed to within an ich of my life after all

Yes well its happened to me plenty of times, I dont lose any sleep over it as your most likely dealing with a player (there's plenty of women online doing that too) or an alcoholic and he's still in bed lol.
My advice is to just move on and hopefully next time its not waste of time.
Harro

I feel sad for you, but obviously you are a great chick,and I'm sure things will pick up for you soon honey. Don't give up, he wasn't worth it, he probably did you a favour!

---whoa! - a hot trotting chick - yer gonna have a lot of fun , I'm sure

Thx Harro, sorry to hear the same has happened to you.It just irks me when people say they know what they want then just well....dont !
I think I can safely say that if chatting to someone i know within the first conversation if i want to have another one with them.I am not online to waste my time or others I am actually seeking a genuine man.
I really cannot see why anyone wants to lead another on , I mean whats the point!!! Is it just to fill in an otherwise boring night?
I suppose its more The thrill of the chase fo some .
Well personally Im getting a lil sick of the shallow heartlessness that is becomeing more n more apparent to me the longer i stay .
Im not an easy person to rattle , im very relaxed but its gettin to me .I think what it comes down to is simply this I am a verystraight forward person , I say what I think, or what I feel without any resevations If I am not interested ill say , sorry but i dont think weve got any common ground If I find someone interesting ill say also ...etc Ide just like the same in return .
Kizzy

Well the good news is Im going out for dinner then back home to watch a dvd with my friend 6'4 instead tonite ...Im Not gonna stay blue ....

6'4 and full of muscle 8=======================D hey kizzy..

Thx dragonfly I think your right xx

Wellllllllllll Yessssssssssssss lol
But hey i got the blues ,,, gotta do something to cheer me up !!
& hey we do get on very well....
awwww now im all embarrassed lol ....not
Cya guys have a gr8 nite whateva you end up doin ....

Kizzy

---enjoy have fun smile

Ok Im home , Had a nice nite out , dinner then dvd , have had to make it a reasonably early night my son was at a party & I had to collect him at 11pm soooooo home alone now ...
Over all had a good nite & 6'4 definatley helped ease the pain Of being stood up by a meanie ...
Hope everyones evening went well , Im off to bed enjoy yr Sunday people
Kizzy

Well the meanie still hasnt called ....fark did he miss out on a great girl....Idiot !...

--- - Yep! he sure did- a little like closeted conservative towns- there are actually some people that still believe that a round peg dosen't fit in a square hole