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CountryBoy120 Moe, Victoria Australia
well its official my love life is in shambles i got back from iraq after a 6 month deployment to find my missus cheating on me with a freind of mine i thought that she was the one for me but obviously she aint i feel that i can date again now after about 5 months is it me or am i looking for love in the wrong places
kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
CountryBoy120: well its official my love life is in shambles i got back from iraq after a 6 month deployment to find my missus cheating on me with a freind of mine i thought that she was the one for me but obviously she aint i feel that i can date again now after about 5 months is it me or am i looking for love in the wrong places



Dog act !!!!

But hey just take all the good from it n lose the bad ,
My Motto
" Suffering is Optional"
foundermeo Melbourne, Victoria Australia
woah man thats pretty damn harsh, good luck in finding some one
maybesoon brisbane, Queensland Australia
CountryBoy120: well its official my love life is in shambles i got back from iraq after a 6 month deployment to find my missus cheating on me with a freind of mine i thought that she was the one for me but obviously she aint i feel that i can date again now after about 5 months is it me or am i looking for love in the wrong places



dont get sucked into, givin it another go!!! go find someone else, that suits your life style mate!!!frustrated
relaxin somewhere, Queensland Australia
kizzy27: Dog act !!!!

But hey just take all the good from it n lose the bad ,
My Motto
" Suffering is Optional"




thumbs up thumbs up what she said
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
CountryBoy120: well its official my love life is in shambles i got back from iraq after a 6 month deployment to find my missus cheating on me with a freind of mine i thought that she was the one for me but obviously she aint i feel that i can date again now after about 5 months is it me or am i looking for love in the wrong places
What goes around comes around.wink

At least now you're not wasting time and you can move on and hopefully find a truly nice lady. Good Luck wine



nateras85 Melbourne, Victoria Australia
well it doesnt help that you tell everyone ur sob story!!!!
wgaBloke Wagga Wagga, New South Wales Australia
On your feet Soldier!, if the Army wanted you to have a "mrs" they would have Issued you One.

Seriously , its a hell of a feeling at the time, but down the track alittle you will see it much clearer.
Maybe she just wasn't the Right one yet mate.

Goodluck with the Future thumbs up
bubblesron maryborough, Queensland Australia
Hey CB, You got war service mate, she could have been a war widow when you pushed off. her loss mate, get among em and live your life. You guys going in harm's way deserve better than her anyway. Keep your head down and your powder dry old mate. from an earlier generation who served in the "senior service" cheers
blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
CountryBoy120: well its official my love life is in shambles i got back from iraq after a 6 month deployment to find my missus cheating on me with a freind of mine i thought that she was the one for me but obviously she aint i feel that i can date again now after about 5 months is it me or am i looking for love in the wrong places


not quite sure what your looking for in regards to a reply really?? dunno confused

all I can say is.. move on dude thumbs up



di64liz lithgow, New South Wales Australia
I agree too just move on with your life as hard as it may seem ..All the best ......teddy bear
Cassiemild mildura, Victoria Australia
relax abit and let go a tad..LOVE ROMANCE AND LUST always find away but you have to be patient....
Good luck on ur seachwine



phaedellis Brisbane, Queensland Australia
nateras85: well it doesnt help that you tell everyone ur sob story!!!!

I thought that was what this was all about?????? telling everyone our sob stories? well i aint got any news yet guys but its sunday tomorrow yay....dancing banana
bubblesron maryborough, Queensland Australia
CountryBoy120: well its official my love life is in shambles i got back from iraq after a 6 month deployment to find my missus cheating on me with a freind of mine i thought that she was the one for me but obviously she aint i feel that i can date again now after about 5 months is it me or am i looking for love in the wrong places


Mate, from another vet of another war, there have always been dear john letters, i suppose be thankfull you did not find out while you were there, the distraction may have gotten you killed. You have my very real sympathy, it never happened to me, but to some of my mates and to veterans in all conflicts always. Chin Up mate and thank you and well done for serving and be aware that there are thousands of vets out there who love you no matter what mate.

lyrics - Dear John Letter

(Billy Barton - Lewis Talley - Fuzzy Owen)

Dear John oh how I hate to write dear John I must let you know tonight
That my love for you has died away like grass upon the lawn
And tonight I wed another dear John

I was overseas in battle when the mail called up to me
And they handed me a letter why I was happy as could be
For the fighting was all over and the battle had been won
Then I opened up the letter and that started Dear John
Dear John oh how I hate to write...

Will you please send back my picture my husband wants it now
And when I tell you who I'm marrying well you won't care dear anyhow
Now the ceremony has started and I'll wed your brother Don
Will you wish us happiness forever dear John
And tonight I wed another dear John

cheers cheers cheers
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
nateras85: well it doesnt help that you tell everyone ur sob story!!!!
thumbs down Ice princess
bubblesron maryborough, Queensland Australia
nateras85: well it doesnt help that you tell everyone ur sob story!!!!


nateras85

With the life experience you must gained have after all of your 23 years, CB should appreciate your thoughtfull and incitefull comments. I think you should do counselling rather than pe. You are so good at empathy you would be a natural in the field.

What an angel of a person to treat another human's sufferring with such respect and dignity.


And YES that is being a little sarcastic very mad
BRAD76 MELBOURNE- NORTHERN SUBURBS, Victoria Australia
and let me guess, while you were gone, she was writing to you telling you how much she missed you and couln't wait till you got back?

and you had to find out off some one else about her and your mate, correct? same old story every time.

hard to deal with i know, but the only thing you can do, move on and dont look back, just be happy your still alive and that you have saved alot of time, it could have taken you 10 yrs to realise she was no-good..

anyway,

your young, live life... do what you want, when you want..
its the freedom you fought for...

and most of all, smile mate....


my 2c
kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
hey Brad wave Nice to see you again ..
Kizzylips
blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
BRAD76: and let me guess, while you were gone, she was writing to you telling you how much she missed you and couln't wait till you got back?

and you had to find out off some one else about her and your mate, correct? same old story every time.

hard to deal with i know, but the only thing you can do, move on and dont look back, just be happy your still alive and that you have saved alot of time, it could have taken you 10 yrs to realise she was no-good..

anyway,

your young, live life... do what you want, when you want..
its the freedom you fought for...

and most of all, smile mate....my 2c


wave haven't seen your name pop up on these fine pages for quite awhile!

welcome back to the madhouse grin
bourbon Sunshine Coast, Queensland Australia
bubblesron: nateras85

With the life experience you must gained have after all of your 23 years, CB should appreciate your thoughtfull and incitefull comments. I think you should do counselling rather than pe. You are so good at empathy you would be a natural in the field.

What an angel of a person to treat another human's sufferring with such respect and dignity.And YES that is being a little sarcastic


You may have more 'life experience'... but nateras is a lot more switched on than you when it comes to dating. drinking




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