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Day by Day. Do things to keep you occupied don't just sit around and feels sorry for yourself. Time is the hardest part it takes a lot of time.

Good Luck.

wise words thank you

it is never easy starting over but it does startas soon as you decide to stop punishing your self, you have taken the first step to seeking controll of you life again ,
for me it started once i had given myself a chance to mend and appreciate my own time to love me and do things for just me , go and pamper your self and that is the best way of making a fresh start
heres a thought "you would not try and cell a broken or dirty car"
so clear your mind buy a new outfit it alway's ,when you look good you feel great , best of luck

it is never easy starting over but it does starts soon as you decide to stop punishing your self, you have taken the first step to seeking controll of you life again ,
for me it started once i had given myself a chance to mend and appreciate my own time to love me and do things for just me , go and pamper your self and that is the best way of making a fresh start
heres a thought "you would not try and cell a broken or dirty car"
so clear your mind buy a new outfit it alway's worked for me, when you look good you feel great ,

best of luck

In most cases it takes a little time to accept that the relationship has ended and to move on from the relationship. Sometimes the ending of a relationship can give you time to learn more about yourself, spend time with your buddies and do things that you enjoy doing.
Keeping active and doing things you enjoy may help to keep your mind off the break up.

Take all the good , leave all the bad ,suffering is optional so dont do it .
Enjoy everysecond Life is too short.
New beginings can be very good for the soul...
JMO
Kizzy

Without cynicism. With construction. Always. Next time. This time. Without conditions, expectations.

But "time" and "hope"...? Are these mere clichés, shabby refuge of the disparate and the desperate...?

Should we avoid the advice that's given "too easily" when what we are feeling is pain and the need, as men, to do something practical?

Are we too easily confronted, accused, as males of being "... from Mars...", and told we "just don't listen", that women "don't want solutions but ears for their words, complaints, problems."

We're told by the pap mags like Cleo and Cosmo and the babbling 'counselors' that we must bend to the fashions and whims of political correctness.

Emasculation? "Sins of the father...?"

Of course "time" cures everything. Eventually we die. The "problem" dies with us.

Or does it? Does "love" find us when we least expect? Need we make effort? Is the only rule that there is no rule at all?

Surely, in relationships, marriage, men also work best as equals? And as much as women need shoulders on which to cry, to lean... A man wants to know, at least to feel, that he is needed to make things right, to help, to fix, to sort a remedy for whatever it is that disturbs, upsets, her.

Is it impossible in Oz to want, as a male, for "little things" to mean "a lot"? For love-making to be 24/7, in as much as the "foreplay" be constant, if not overtly sexual, but including all things from the visual to the tactile, the touch and sound and smell of being together? For the act of copulation itself to be the 'cherried cream' on the cake, but the
most delicious part being the penultimate. exquisite, hours of the day leading toward that absolute expression of love?

Unfashionable?

Yin and Yang. Do they go and grow together, not apart?

Would divorce be better earned if it took as much effort, time, dedication, as did the courtship, marriage?




- 'W'


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quote
Without cynicism. With construction. Always. Next time. This time. Without conditions, expectations.

But "time" and "hope"...? Are these mere clichés, shabby refuge of the disparate and the desperate...?

Should we avoid the advice that's given "too easily" when what we are feeling is pain and the need, as men, to do something practical?

Are we too easily confronted, accused, as males of being "... from Mars...", and told we "just don't listen", that women "don't want solutions but ears for their words, complaints, problems."

We're told by the pap mags like Cleo and Cosmo and the babbling 'counselors' that we must bend to the fashions and whims of political correctness.

Emasculation? "Sins of the father...?"

Of course "time" cures everything. Eventually we die. The "problem" dies with us.

Or does it? Does "love" find us when we least expect? Need we make effort? Is the only rule that there is no rule at all?

Surely, in relationships, marriage, men also work best as equals? And as much as women need shoulders on which to cry, to lean... A man wants to know, at least to feel, that he is needed to make things right, to help, to fix, to sort a remedy for whatever it is that disturbs, upsets, her.

Is it impossible in Oz to want, as a male, for "little things" to mean "a lot"? For love-making to be 24/7, in as much as the "foreplay" be constant, if not overtly sexual, but including all things from the visual to the tactile, the touch and sound and smell of being together? For the act of copulation itself to be the 'cherried cream' on the cake, but the
most delicious part being the penultimate. exquisite, hours of the day leading toward that absolute expression of love?

Unfashionable?

Yin and Yang. Do they go and grow together, not apart?

Would divorce be better earned if it took as much effort, time, dedication, as did the courtship, marriage?




- 'W'/quote
Deep shit W, deep

Dont think the road to courtship ever ends, marriage and relationships need as much work as the courtship does in the begining. I think that as we enter a relationship is how we should carry on through the whole time, to suceed. As we change we need to be still romancing the other partner and developing the experience with in ourselves and our relationship. When we take the other for granted then it slowly dies. I dont think the road should have ended at any point, its just the way we make the journey is what counts, with effort from both sides - survival.

This is but a t-junction

all the best

Great advice, I agree the key is the journey.

A film I saw sometime back I think it was the one
starring Will Smith where he described happiness
as a journey that you always travel towards.

So really then if that is the case then you always need to
keep trying and it is that which brings you happiness in
everything you do. So let the journey begin



I am new to this and am a little confused by some codes I have seen eg: JMO and lmao and also any other ones in common use. I'd really appreciate clarification from anyone. thanks

JMO = Just my opinion

LMAO = Lauging my ass off

LMFAO = Laughing my farkin ass off

pmsl = Pissing myself laughing

TMI = Toooo much information

ROFLMAO = Rolling on the floor laughing my ass off.

Ty (thank you)
What was the name of the movie that Will Smith was in?

8=======================D

Big Harry..

Thanks very much SXC666
That was very nice of you it all
makes a lot more sense now.

No problem you will be a pro in no time.

Ty for the code and the film was the one where his
actual biological son played his son in the movie.

I think the movie title was " In Pursuit Of Happiness" it was
about a single Dad and his efforts to raise his son.

It was a great feel good movie and showed just what you
can acieve with a lot of effort and that the effort has to be continuous
hence the pursuit of happiness. But it has been a while sine I saw the movie
so maybe I'm not 100% with the details.

I highly recommed it

it is a good movie actually i had forgotten that one.

a movie out called 13 its great to watch with teenaged kids. its a bit of an eye opener