In response to:
Help, I have no idea what I am doing, first time in a forum, can someone explain this to me, how it works etc.:
It's simple Green ... either take a position or attack a position .... unfortunately most people think that position only refers to missionary, doggy or on top. Therefore the forums usually degenerate to "What would you do in a hot tub with a pound of butter and a pneumatic hammer with the person above you?"
Welllll .... what would you do?